I was able to get on via eBay but I’d like to reset my password but the link that came by email won’t work on my iPad.

Hello Thomas,
Thank you for your question about logging in. Please cut and paste the email link into a reply for us, so we can troubleshoot the issue for you.
We look forward to your response.

I can’t get onto bidslammer at all now - can you just close this account and I can set up another one

Try the mail-password facility at https://bidslammer.com/user/mailpass/ . Please let us know if that works.